What you are afraid of, is conversely what you can be the most excited about in your life, if you gained a breakthrough.
The trouble is, you've tried already haven't you? That's why you are reading this blog post. It's not that you are stupid, it's just your subconscious mind is trying to PROTECT you. That's its job.
It never wants to see you shamed, embarrased, ridiculed, or attacked by others. So it sets up a radar system so to speak to set off alarm bells whenever you might be close to success, because the risk, according to it, is not worth it.
In your subsconscious mind, there is NO risk that is ever worth it. It wants you to stay in your comfort zone. That's where it feels safe.
Where do fears come from?
Some of our fears are easy to spot and are a result of an event that happened, and are clear to consciously recall.
Fear: It happened to me, I will never let it happen again.
I bet you've said "I will never anyone break my heart again", at the end of a relationship, and for a time walk away from dating and wrap your heart in bubble wrap. It's understandable. No one would blame you, but you know consciously, that until you open your heart again, it will not heal the scars.
Fear: It happened to someone else, it could happen to me.
For example, you may have a fear of being "cancelled" after watching someone else be at the receiving end of hatred and disgusting trolling, and as such develop a fear of social media that impacts upon your ability to post for your business.
Irrational fears:
Often our greatest fears are irrational. Meaning someone else could listen to your fears and not see how or why you are worried about them. These fears are usually originate in a previous lifetime. An example would be a fear of fire even though you have never been burnt in this lifetime.
Genetic/ Family fears:
Or perhaps you have absorbed the fears of your family- passed down through your genetic DNA. A little digging around in your family history will show you exactly what your tribe "does" and "doesn't do", which is usually based on a traumatic experience by someone in the clan that imprinted genetically and was passed down.
Find out more about how Katische can help here: Are you AFRAID or Phobic?
Your soul knows what is required. Isn't it time that you looked within and opened the door to the other side of your fear?
