Karmic Love Patterns

Ever wonder why you attract the lovers that you do? Sick and tired of the same kind of experiences? I can help you.

MY NAME IS...
Katische Haberfield

Spiritual Consultant, Coach, Guide, and Multidimensional Healer.

My work bridges energy, consciousness, and timeless transformation.

I help people explore the subconscious, conscious, and superconscious realms to raise their consciousness, release old patterns, and step fully into alignment with their true essence.

As a past life regression therapist and clinical hypnotherapist, I can tell you that I've seen it all.  At a spiritual level it's simple. We are all human, we want to be seen loved, and acknowledged and be in a relationship that values us and enhances our quality of life. But it doesn't always work out that way.

Karma- our past actions, thoughts and behaviours often get in the way. So we need to understand not only why we attract someone energetically, but also mentally and physically.

How can I work out my karma and be in the relationship of my dreams or move my relationship to new heights?

It doesn't have to be complicated but it does take an understanding of the concepts, patience and a willingness to take action for your half of the relationship.

Step 1: Awareness

The first step is to be aware that you desire something different. Become aware of your thoughts, your feelings, your emotions, your desires and the actions that you take.

healing anxiety with past life regression

Step 2: Action

The second step is to take action by first thinking "right, I'd better do something about this" followed by "where do I start?

Step 3: Self Love

It's easy to learn to identify patterns in other people's behaviours when you stop and analyse a relationship for how it made you feel, behave and what the lessons were.

Every relationship has lessons, no matter how hard it might be to identify them, they are there and they are guiding you to overcome them so you feel better!

Step 5: Healing and Introspection

Healing and introspection can come in many forms. 

  • Energy Healing- with the surface emotions so you go from feeling mad, sad, angry, hurt, depressed or vengeful to calm.
  • Spiritual Consulting works to help you identify the patterns once you have a clear head and can listen and discuss the relationship with a trusted confident who is NOT a family member or friend.
  • Clinical Hypnotherapy can examine your subconscious mind, to see what the real patterns are, and to give you clarity and perspective on your patterns and how your Higher Self wishes you to understand the relationships you are in.
  • Past Life Regression helps you identify if these patterns are karmic or not. Meaning, you have not only repeated them in this lifetime but it other lifetimes as well! It can be a real eye opener, but sometimes we can be here on a soul contract agreement because we are here to help the person we are in a relationship with- so that they can see and experience what they need to see to move forward.
  • Sound Healing is designed to release emotions that have bottled up. Depending on the frequency of the sound different effects can be achieved- like calming, stress relief, anxiety relief and releasing grief or anger.
  • Aromatherapy is Mother Nature's way of addressing the layers of emotion that get stuck in our physical body when we repress them, AND a way to calm our fight/flight response when when we are stressed or experiencing situations which are hard to deal with.

Step 4: Overcome Karmic Temptation

Often we can "know" that we attract a certain type of person, and that we should avoid them, but it is not until the universe puts their "type" in front of you again, and you RECOGNISE the "type" and walk away before it even starts that we are making solid progress.

We will continue the same patterns until we heal the attraction and learn from our past.

Step 6: Try again or improve

Once we have given ourselves time and space and actively done the inner work, we can try again, or if we have stayed in a safe relationship we can implement this in our daily life. 

Sometimes there are messages to be had from ancestors and family members in the afterlife who wish to guide us in our endeavor to be the love we seek to attract and have in our life.

We even have Angelic Romantic Spirit Guides to help us!


Exactly 3 YEARS AGO TODAY

Following another quiet nudge, this time through Facebook Dating

I met the most beautiful soul—Alan

That moment was the beginning of a deeply healing, heart-led love.

A connection I was able to fully receive after the deep past life regression work I did with the extraordinary Katische Haberfield.

Meeting Alan was no coincidence

It was the continuation of the ripple

The gift waiting just on the other side of healing.

Katie Carey.


i understand what you are going through.

I've been single, I've been married and been divorced. I have tried dating post divorce, and I decided to turn my experiences in healing myself into my passion and career.

To the left is a post I wrote 13 years ago about emotions and why it is important to embrace them and understand what they are trying to tell you!


This poem brilliantly encapsulates the journey of love for some people.

"An autobiography in five chapters" by Portia Nelson.

1.   I walk down the street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.  I fall in. 

I am lost.     I am hopeless.     It isn’t my fault.

It takes me forever to find a way out. 

2.   I walk down the same street. 

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. 

I pretend I don’t see it.   

I fall in again. 

I can’t believe I’m in the same place.

But it isn’t my fault.  

It still takes a long time to get out. 

3.   I walk down the same street. 

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. 

I see it is still there.   

I still fall in...  it's a habit.

My eyes are open, I know where I am.

It is my fault.   I get out immediately.  

4.   I walk down the same street. 

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. 

I walk around it.

5.   I walk down another street.

What are my options?

You might be at the beginning of your journey and wish to work in a group environment with awareness and energy healing via a Facebook Group and a Challenge. 

or you might want to start the process of working one on one to analyse your current situation.

What Others Say

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I can now very much see the unconscious patterns that were at play. Being aware of these patterns & working with Katische to clear them has left me feeling lighter... like anything is possible.


I've not ever had challenges calling in romantic partners until the last couple of years. With that said, I've also never called in the caliber of relationship that I'm now seeking. So I wanted to clear anything that might have been blocking me from calling in this new caliber of relationship.

I hoped to clear whatever might be blocking me from calling in a healthy romantic relationship.

The sessions were emotional & enlightening. In the sessions, I felt held in a supported space that allowed me to go deep & explore unconscious programming, conditioning & limiting beliefs.

I can now very much see the unconscious patterns that were at play. Being aware of these patterns & working with Katische to clear them has left me feeling lighter... like anything is possible. I feel much more aligned & empowered to call in the caliber of relationship I'm seeking.

If you feel there might be something blocking you from experiencing the type of love you are seeking or from having the life you want, definitely consider a PLR with Katische.

The things we bring forward from past lives and/or carry with us from past hardships in this lifetime impact our ability to manifest what we truly desire & deserve. Don't allow yourself to be limited for one minute longer!



Candy Irven USA 

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Thank you for weaving together the lessons from my past lives with my current life. Things make so much sense now and I feel greater peace.


Sarah Marcotte. USA

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Katische led me through a series of experiences from this lifetime in the current life session and past lifetimes in the past lifetime session that all connected to one another and showed me patterns I had been carrying that I needed to see in order to bring love in. I also had quite a profound healing experience with various angels.

After the session, I felt relaxed and like I had secret access to my inner self like I'd never had before. I feel much more connected and able to receive information from my higher self. The access to and communication with my higher self is much different now than it was before working with Katische.

I highly recommend working with Katische if you are feeling stuck around any area of your life. During the sessions, she is able to intuit what you need to hear to guide you toward the most important outcome for your goals.


Laura Haehl USA

You are here today because your journey has started with the awareness that something needs to change.


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